True self-confidence and genuine self-esteem are different from arrogance, entitlement, bumptiousness, taking over, speaking loudly or being the most ‘charismatic’ person in the room. We sometimes assume that those who dominate conversations, meetings or gatherings are confident – but it’s not always so.
Quiet self-confidence is just a different form of confidence
It’s often the case that those who don’t always speak first or who don’t necessarily always give their opinion, have a deeper and more solid sense of self-esteem than those who are quick to speak – it’s simply different from what we’ve become used to.
The problem with the more ‘confident’ people who tend to speak first is that they then set the tone for the rest of the consultation or discussion and when we automatically defer in this way we then miss out on what the quieter, less obviously ‘confident’ people have to contribute.
So, if you’re often the first to speak in any conversation, consider waiting a while to hear what others may have to say. Waiting quietly isn’t a bad thing and often there will be much wisdom and clarity that comes when we hear from the quieter voices.
Please let us hear what you have to say
If you are one of the people who needs a bit more time to gather your thoughts and to reflect before you make your contribution, then please know that it’s really important that you find a way to give your input. If you’ve got used to giving up and sitting back because you don’t want to fight to be heard, then please take courage and make the effort to speak up. Your quiet self-assurance helps to balance out the louder contributions.
If you find it hard to say speak up, then ‘The Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem Remedy’ was designed for you.
This practical and understanding remedy has within it the support and encouragement for you to:
- Say what you want and need to say
- Build self-belief, self-esteem and self-confidence
- Enhance courage and focus to take responsibility for your own life
- Activate assertiveness and willpower
- Lift your spirits and stimulates a positive outlook on life
- Help to rewrite old subconscious negative beliefs
- Ease depression and releases painful memories
- Encourage social confidence
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