As women, we’ve often been conditioned to compare ourselves with other women and to judge ourselves negatively based upon what we perceive. We look at the women around us or at those in the media and we decide that we’re not as good as they are. Whether it’s our weight, our clothes, our age, our lifestyle or our achievements which we’re comparing with others, it makes us feel inadequate and undermines our confidence.
When we compare ourselves with others, we’re basing our self-esteem on a foundation of shifting sand, because it’s based on something outside ourselves, rather than on our own selves. It means that our attention is in the wrong place because we’re meant to be focusing on our own lives and our unique individual gifts – and not on those of other people.
It is very freeing to call your attention back to your own life and attributes so that you can give yourself and the attention you need. It’s far better to be the best ‘you’ you can be than to try and be a poor copy of someone else.
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